Contradictions seem to be part of my journey; I am a first generation American on my immigrant mother’s side and seventh generation Floridian on my father’s side.  My great, great paternal grandfather fought in the Civil War and my Great Grandmother Iris was born when he (her father) was 82-years old, go figure!  She was just one of the absolutely phenomenal women and influences in my life, the others being my maternal grandmother, my mother, and all of her five sisters born in Karachi, Pakistan.

Coming from a culturally diverse family heritage exposed me to humanity in a very personal way and at a young age. Let me explain.  Not only was my mother born in a country and culture where women were not exactly celebrated, she was also a minority in her faith, as a Catholic in a predominantly Muslim country, and grew up very poor with very little to no modern amenities and technology.  My maternal family roots are from Goa, which was a Portuguese Colony until 1966 when it became part of India. My maternal grandparents went to Portuguese schools and spoke Portuguese.  My Dad on the other hand is very “Floridian,” knowing Florida’s history, indigenous species of plants and animals, and growing up with a deep love for the land, fishing, and rock & roll.  This family chain also includes a Native American great grandmother.

My story begins in Ormond Beach, where I was born and have stayed since.  Being raised by a single mother, for the most part, life has been full of blessings, excitement, and some challenges.  Early on, I learned that Attitude and Work Ethic are controlled by only me.  A combination of tough and unconditional love from my parents and consistent support from a village has resulted in who I am today.

There were many challenges in Elementary School, some out of my control.  My biggest challenge was being a dancer, which was accidental.  My mom asked me if I wanted to try dance as my sister wanted to begin classes, so I did at the age of six and half.  The rest is history as I never looked back; however, all my accomplishments during mid to late elementary school resulted in a lot of teasing and bullying – not many boys dance.  I stuck with it, as I had a lot of support and I honestly loved it. Dance gave me an appreciation of how through music and dance I could entertain and make people happy. I have participated in many activities, particularly during the holidays where I have visited aged care homes to provide entertainment. Music and Arts have continued to be a huge passion for me, I began playing bass as part of the Hinson Middle School Orchestra and continued into High School, playing a handful of instruments and tapping with the Jazz Band.

Diversity is part of my core. Therefore, understanding, appreciating, and respecting differences whether cultural, religious, gender, etc. has been integral to my upbringing. I am grateful for a heritage rich with Asian and American culture and influences, and my transnational family and friends have exposed me to a broader view of life and the world.